Justice of the Peace Timetable
Clearly, you know how many weeks it takes to order a bridal gown or book a venue. You may not be as familiar with a reasonable timetable for deciding on the officiant for your wedding. Allow at least several weeks before your event to interview prospects and to schedule a pre-ceremony interview - especially at the busiest times of the year: late summer – early Fall, the holiday period and Valentine's Day. However, we are happy to honor last minute requests.

The License
You may register for a marriage license (a Notice of Intentions) in any city or town in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts - but not out of State. There is a three-day waiting period before you can be legally married. This license is valid for 60 days. You will present your license to your Justice of the Peace prior to your wedding. He or she will mail it to the city or town from which it originated. Several weeks later you will receive your finalized license. For a small fee, you have the opportunity to receive a certified copy of your license for the purpose of showing legal proof of your marriage.

Same Gender Couples
I am happy to officiate at weddings or commitment ceremonies for same-gender couples and I present appropriate vows in every case. The same rules and regulations apply for licensure. However, same gender couples must prove that they are or intend to be residents of Massachusetts by presenting deeds, driver’s licenses, proof of employment, etc. to officials in the city or town where they are applying.

Fees
The Commonwealth of Massachusetts has set the fee for officiating at a wedding. However, additional charges are allowed for pre-nuptial conferences and for my presence at a rehearsal. I require a deposit of one half the agreed upon fee in order to reserve your date. The balance is required prior to the ceremony.

The site
I am comfortable at officiating at weddings held anywhere - in and out of doors, at the beach, on a boat or in a park, at a simple hall or in an elaborate hotel. Accordingly, I will wear a robe or business suit, whatever your preference. I limit my participation to Greater Boston and Cape Cod but will make exceptions.

Religious Traditions
No special words are required in a wedding ceremony - just your intention to commit to marriage. I have prepared conventional, respectful vows to solemnize your union. Please, note that I am a secular officiant and as such, I make no mention of God or any other deity in the ceremonies I perform unless requested. However, you both, your readers or musical accompanists may incorporate whatever religious or cultural passages or selections you choose. You are welcome and encouraged to personalize your ceremony by embracing traditions dear to you.

Invite Friends and Loved Ones to Participate
Being a participant in a wedding is a tribute to friends and relatives. You may want to invite a few special people to share your memorable event with readings or personal thoughts. But not too many. You and your spouse are the central figures and should not be overshadowed.

Second Marriage
This day is equally as special as your first wedding. Perhaps more so. Follow your heart as to dress, flowers and festivities. Encourage your families to be part of the ceremony - especially your children.

Photographs
I have no objection to having photographs taken during the ceremony but ask that the photographer be discreet. While I do not endorse any particular wedding vendors, I can suggest an excellent, professional photographer with whom I work closely.

Communicate with Me
It is important that you are completely comfortable with the officiant you select and the details of your ceremony. You do not want any unexpected surprises on your wedding day. I invite you to call me as often as needed in order to discuss every aspect of your special day.